Tag: humanity

  • Sacred service Pt 2: civic responsibility

    I touched on this a little in my peace about sharing beauty with the world around us. We create that beauty through supporting libraries and museums, patronizing small businesses in our areas, participating in neighborhood cleanup projects and public art. We have in my mind a moral responsibility, without regarding those we are assisting as lesser, without seeking attention for our good works, and without burning ourselves out screaming about issues, to make our little corners of the world better places. That energy flows outward. We can do this as acts of devotion to our gods. Life is interconnected, even our planet has body, mind, and spirit just like we do. from the sun to the gods to the spirits that inhabit blades of grass, down to Adams with their electrical currents, everything is sentient.

    We can witness the social trials of the world without dissolving into them. We don’t need to exist in a constant state of burden and burnout. Instead, we can have space for our own happiness and exercise our agency in a real way that counts on a local level.  If the first part of the series was about nourishing our inner flame, this is about taking that warmth into the world around us physically. 

    I sat on the front steps of an old house many years ago, listening to the story of one blended family across multiple generations, hearing about the compounding circumstances they had had, the challenges they had faced. I was with a group that was engaged in cleanup in the neighborhood of Evergreen bottom in Birmingham Alabama.  We were sweeping sidewalks, cleaning up overgrown brush, removing trash. When I compare this moment to the performed distress online, I feel like we give ourselves emotional exhaustion without really changing anything these days. Another moment that gave me immense joy was working in a high school in Leland Mississippi. We washed windows, dusted books, repainted movable stage walls, and talked with the students who were there participating in the work. One moment I remember clearly was cleaning up an old water fountain that no one believed worked, and it actually did.   I think seeing their school renewed maybe gave those kids some hope, some sense that the world could actually be a better place. What we got in return, as college kids from a nice school in Illinois, was a different perspective on life. Things weren’t easy for them, but they knew how to connect with each other in positive ways. And they wanted the world to be a better place for everyone.  Despite their own difficulties they were willing to step up and work to better their own community.  I feel like now, we spend so much time being angry, burning ourselves out, and maybe that communication gets more of us thinking in the right direction, but how does it actually turn into real world change on a micro level? Because that kind of change comes from small acts with consistency. There were many other projects but another that hits close to home for me philosophically is working in a cemetery, where the last burial took place in 1984, on the side of a steep hill in Weston West Virginia. I could feel many individual energies of people who were there. So cleaning off their gravestones, getting rid of old brush, washing the steps that climbed the hill, felt like honoring them.  We should honor the places we live in, and the people we share those places with, as we are all divine. 

    I feel we could step back from the cycles of performed distress, and instead create cumulative change through small consistent actions that honor ourselves, the Earth, humanity and our gods. They’re absolutely must be spaces for anger, empathy, grief and joy. We do not have to sacrifice who we are, doing what we love, or taking care of ourselves. We just have to step up.

  • Cultivating beauty in the lives of those around us

    I have a powerful belief in our individuality, and that we should always prioritize our happiness as well as our growth. But we have in my opinion a moral obligation to be there for our families, whether blood or chosen, our friends and our communities. Cultivating beauty in the lives of those around us starts on the simplest level, but amounts to being continually considerate of the happiness and well-being of others. Without crossing their boundaries.

    1. Support libraries, museums, and your local music scene. Our depths of creativity and intelligence are priceless. Donate. Encourage people to visit and invest in these things. And as part of your own self-care and growth, take on intellectual pursuits, learn your local history, discover a new creative hobby that you can share with others.
    2. Participate in local cleanup projects, and this might be controversial, but positive public art where aloud. A cleaner, more intentional environment just makes us all feel psychologically better, and more inclined to care about the world around us. I have seen for myself how removing trash and debris from a neighborhood, helping to repair homes, putting up murals and chalk art, can be a breath of fresh air for everyone who lives there.
    3. This starts at home. Be kind to your neighbors, take care of your property, clean up trash in your environment, be kind and validating to your children and respectful of your pets. And remember to do these things for yourself so you have more to give to those you actually care about. You can only control your own actions, but projecting genuine positivity only gives everyone around you an emotional boost. Everyone has to individually choose to care about making things better. But when someone does, it spreads.
    4. Respect the boundaries of others. This is about allowing everyone to have a sense of peace, which does not harm you. The whole neighborhood doesn’t need to hear the music from your car. People having a religious service you disagree with on their own property deserve their space. Neighbors should not have to put up with trash or overgrown vegetation from your property.
    5. Show kindness and hospitality to strangers of all backgrounds, so long as they respect your space and who you are. A healthy community is one where diversity is accepted, and where people can feel welcome no matter their religion, ethnicity, orientation, gender, or whether or not they have body art and crazy hair colors. No social division defines whether or not someone is a good person. Economic status, religion, job title, none of that matters. So some of those people you might be judging are probably amazing.
    6. The last thing I believe should be part of this equation is interspiritual work. Whether you walk with one God or many or just the concept of fate, spiritual belief gives beauty to life as long as it is not being used to negatively impact people who disagree with it, and can open doorways to knowledge and personal connections we otherwise might not receive. 
  • The value of beauty for humanity

    We have always valued beautiful things. People traded for visually stunning materials to make their tools out of, discovered pigments in nature for body decoration, spirituality in everything from the fragrance of flowers to the shapes of mountains. We have landscape photography, perfume is an industry that brings in billions of dollars, and people feel healthier living in places where aesthetic detail matters. Social elites have tried to define what is truly beautiful and some people out there would argue that beauty in life does not matter. I say it does.

    A basket of makeup beside two jewelry boxes, several perfume bottles, a decorative dish, gold tray, and a small pile of headbands

    A little about me. The early beauty YouTube community helped me start to learn to love myself. It was easier to get out of bed when I wanted to put on a nice outfit, do my make up, take care of my skin. Gradually over the years I linked this with my spirituality, which has a divine feminine focus. now I encourage people to care for their spirit by dressing in ways that make them feel both beautiful and comfortable, and creating an aesthetic environment that nurtures a sense of peace and contentment.

    A black cat rests on one of two velvet cushions, which are pink and yellow, in front of a wood and glass piece of furniture used as an altar. The altar holds several handmade God and goddess statues, offering cups, plates holding crystals, and several other symbolic and decorative objects.

    The copper plates, ceramic espresso cups, and many other items here were created by small business owners online who have a great sense of aesthetic. I created the statues by hand, though I wish I could have done more detail work, as a self-taught amateur sculpter. The photography is also my work. The layout is meant to be visually aesthetic with balance and symmetry. I really worked to choose colors that I find inviting. There are also some vintage items such as the two jewelry boxes I use for long-term spells, and the two candleholders on either side. I chose natural materials wherever possible as a connection to the Earth, which is why I also included the photography. And most of us appreciate the feel of luxurious material on our skin, such as velvet or silk, which is how I decided on my floor cushions.

    Luxe magic is intentional living for the purpose of being happy and fulfilled. This means self-care, cultivating beauty in your life, doing the same for others around you and being involved in your community, actively choosing intellectual pursuits and experiences that change your perspective, and above all, taking care of the divine aspect of yourself while having a strong relationship with your higher powers. Over the next several months I plan to chat with you on the various aspects of this practice. Subscribe if you are interested.

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